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Does the child custody process apply to adopted children?

| Jun 4, 2021 | Divorce |

When you and your estranged spouse file for divorce in Pennsylvania, the judge will treat your adopted child just like a biological child. In other words, the court won’t take your child away from you because they’re adopted. However, you might still have to fight for custody if you and your estranged spouse can’t agree on the terms.

How should you proceed during your divorce?

Even if you think it’s unfair, disobeying a child custody order is one of the worst things that you can do. If you defy the judge’s order, they might assume that you’re not willing to cooperate and use it against you. You could lose custody of your child even if the adoption was your idea in the first place.

Similarly, you should spend as much time with your child as possible even if the court case makes it difficult. You can still go to events like plays, soccer games and family reunions unless the judge says otherwise. When you get to spend time with your child one-on-one, this is your chance to show the court that you’re a dedicated parent. You can have fun with your child, but you should also take on real parental responsibilities like taking your child to school.

If possible, negotiating with your estranged spouse could give you the best possible outcome. Fighting about the issue in court might make your estranged spouse more likely to seek full custody. When you remain civil, they could be willing to accept a joint custody agreement.

How do you make it easier on your child?

Divorce is a difficult time for children, especially if they’ve already been through the adoption process. During this time, you could remind your child that you and your estranged spouse still love them and want to be their parents. Staying civil with your former spouse could also make it easier on your child.